You must keep their attention and let them relax at the same time. You must understand them, love them, and be loved by them, if you wish to get good results.
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Mary agrees to teach Jude and James of Alphaeus and she says:
It is to Him [to God], and not to poor men, that we must apply for light, and it is not possible to have light if there is no justice and loyalty to God.
You do not ask ‘why ‘ of Him Who knows. ‘Why’ He behaved in a certain way. You do not ask those with a vocation ‘why’ they leave everything to follow the voice of God.
Death loses its bitterness if it takes place between My arms. Believe Me. I cannot abolish death, but I can make it sweet for those who die trusting in Me.
Learn, you who are dying, to deserve to have Jesus near you, comforting you. And if you have not deserved it, dare just the same, and call Me near you. I will come. With My hands full of graces and consolation, My Heart full of forgiveness and love, My lips full of words of absolution and encouragement.